Gay Guide
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About LGBTQ+ Provincetown
Provincetown has been an art colony since 1899 and a theater town since 1916, when the Provincetown Players staged Eugene O'Neill's first produced play in a fish house out on a wharf. Tennessee Williams wrote here through the 1940s. Both men drank at the Atlantic House, which sits in a building from 1798 and has catered openly to gay customers since at least the 1950s, which makes it a serious candidate for the oldest gay bar in the country. By the 2010 census, Provincetown had the highest proportion of same-sex couples of any municipality in the United States, at 163 per thousand households.
The town is essentially one street. Commercial Street runs three miles along the harbor and carries nearly everything: the A-House and Macho Bar tucked off it on Masonic Place, the Crown & Anchor complex with the Paramount and the Wave inside it, the Boatslip, Aqua Bar, Bayside Betsy's, and the Gifford House with Purgatory underneath. Brass Key and Shipwreck sit a block back on Bradford. You walk, or you rent a bike; driving here is a mistake in July.
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Afternoon Tea Dance at the Boatslip is the fixed point of a Provincetown day, and has been since the 1970s. Most people stay in guesthouses rather than hotels, which is part of why the place feels less like a resort and more like a town that happens to be full of you.
The calendar runs on theme weeks and they genuinely change who is here. Bear Week takes July, Carnival takes August and brings the parade, Women's Week owns October, and Family Week fills the town with queer parents and their kids. The year-round population is a few thousand and summer multiplies it many times over.
Herring Cove and Race Point are the beaches, backed by the dunes of the National Seashore, and the water is cold enough to be a talking point. AIDS cut through the year-round population here in the 1980s and 1990s in a way a town this small could not absorb quietly, and Provincetown has never been shy about saying so.
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Iconic alternative and LGBTQ+ friendly retail store on Commercial Street.
Provincetown leather and uniform cruise bar on the second level of A-House.
Provincetown stylish LGBTQ+ guesthouse with rooftop terrace, jacuzzi and on-site private bar.
Provincetown highly-rated LGBTQ+ inn near Commercial Street.
Provincetown affordable LGBTQ+ guesthouse on Commercial Street.
Provincetown stylish LGBTQ+ boutique inn with modern design and peaceful courtyard.
Provincetown LGBTQ+ art-focused boutique inn with curated design.
Provincetown historic LGBTQ+-owned guesthouse with Purgatory nightclub and the Porch Bar.
Provincetown beautifully maintained Victorian LGBTQ+ guesthouse.
Provincetown's most well-known gay bar with three bar areas including the Big Room.
Provincetown's iconic annual summer festival week in August, a costumed street parade, themed parties, and nonstop celebrations that make it one of the biggest LGBTQ+ events on the East Coast.
Annual bear gathering in Provincetown drawing thousands of bears and their fans from around the world for a week of parties, events, and beach time.
Upscale LGBTQ+-friendly boutique hotel in Provincetown set in a restored Victorian inn, with a heated pool, full-service spa, and wine bar steps from Commercial Street.
Iconic gay resort on Commercial Street in Provincetown, famous for its afternoon tea dance on the waterfront deck, one of the most beloved daily traditions in P-town.
Provincetown's largest entertainment complex on Commercial Street, with multiple bars, hotel rooms, drag shows, and cabaret that make it the beating heart of P-town nightlife.
Long-running feminist and queer bookshop on Commercial Street in Provincetown, one of the oldest women's bookstores in the US and a community landmark.
Provincetown LGBTQ+-popular boutique hotel with upscale accommodations and easy access to Commercial Street.
Provincetown LGBTQ+-friendly inn in the East End with boutique accommodations and historic charm.
Provincetown LGBTQ+-popular inn offering scenic coastal views and upscale boutique accommodations.
Beloved Provincetown institution on Commercial Street, a sprawling military surplus and novelty shop that's been a P-town landmark since 1945.
Scenic National Seashore beach at the tip of Cape Cod, popular with LGBTQ+ visitors for its remote windswept beauty and clothing-optional stretches.
Intimate gay-friendly inn on Central Street in Provincetown with cozy accommodations a short walk from the heart of Commercial Street.