Gay Guide
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About LGBTQ+ St. Louis
Same-sex marriage came to Missouri in 2015 as part of the Supreme Court's nationwide ruling. St. Louis, the state's historic river city, gathers its LGBTQ+ life into one lively, resurgent district.
That district is The Grove, running along Manchester Avenue in the Forest Park Southeast neighborhood, a dense and colorful strip of gay bars, queer-owned businesses, and restaurants marked by its rainbow signage. Venues range from the decades-old Grey Fox to dance bars, drag stages, and easygoing neighborhood spots, giving the area a genuine gayborhood feel rather than a single street of clubs.
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The Grove sits a short hop from Forest Park and the Central West End, so it slots neatly into a wider St. Louis trip.
Alongside the region's main June celebration, Tower Grove Pride packs nearby Tower Grove Park each year for a community-powered festival that leans grassroots and inclusive rather than corporate.
A cornerstone of 'The Grove' neighborhood, offering a welcoming patio, regular drag shows, and high-energy DJ sets.
Long-running private men's sauna and bathhouse serving the regional LGBTQ+ community.
St. Louis's annual LGBTQ+ pride festival, one of the Midwest's largest, held in Tower Grove Park with live entertainment, vendors, and community programming.
Independent bookshop in St. Louis's Central West End with a well-curated selection including strong LGBTQ+ and progressive titles, plus regular author events and community programming.
Long-running gay bar and club in St. Louis's Grove neighborhood, with a dance floor, patio, and regular weekend events popular with the local LGBTQ+ community.
LGBTQ+ bar and club in St. Louis's Grove neighborhood, featuring themed nights, drag shows, and a welcoming queer community atmosphere.
Gay-friendly neighborhood bar in St. Louis's South City area on Russell Boulevard, with a casual local atmosphere.
Annual queer film festival presented by Cinema St. Louis, now in its 19th year, showcasing LGBTQ+ feature films, documentaries, and shorts in St. Louis each summer.
A St. Louis trans-led community center providing direct services, mutual aid, support groups, and community building for the trans, gender-queer, and nonbinary community.


