Gay Guide

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About LGBTQ+ St. Louis

Same-sex marriage came to Missouri in 2015 as part of the Supreme Court's nationwide ruling. St. Louis, the state's historic river city, gathers its LGBTQ+ life into one lively, resurgent district.

That district is The Grove, running along Manchester Avenue in the Forest Park Southeast neighborhood, a dense and colorful strip of gay bars, queer-owned businesses, and restaurants marked by its rainbow signage. Venues range from the decades-old Grey Fox to dance bars, drag stages, and easygoing neighborhood spots, giving the area a genuine gayborhood feel rather than a single street of clubs.

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The Grove sits a short hop from Forest Park and the Central West End, so it slots neatly into a wider St. Louis trip.

Alongside the region's main June celebration, Tower Grove Pride packs nearby Tower Grove Park each year for a community-powered festival that leans grassroots and inclusive rather than corporate.

A cornerstone of 'The Grove' neighborhood, offering a welcoming patio, regular drag shows, and high-energy DJ sets.

Long-running private men's sauna and bathhouse serving the regional LGBTQ+ community.

St Louis Grove LGBTQ+ multi-room nightclub.

St Louis LGBTQ+ neighborhood bar with patio.

St. Louis's annual LGBTQ+ pride festival, one of the Midwest's largest, held in Tower Grove Park with live entertainment, vendors, and community programming.

Central West End

Independent bookshop in St. Louis's Central West End with a well-curated selection including strong LGBTQ+ and progressive titles, plus regular author events and community programming.

The Grove

Long-running gay bar and club in St. Louis's Grove neighborhood, with a dance floor, patio, and regular weekend events popular with the local LGBTQ+ community.

The Grove

LGBTQ+ bar and club in St. Louis's Grove neighborhood, featuring themed nights, drag shows, and a welcoming queer community atmosphere.

Gay-friendly neighborhood bar in St. Louis's South City area on Russell Boulevard, with a casual local atmosphere.

Annual queer film festival presented by Cinema St. Louis, now in its 19th year, showcasing LGBTQ+ feature films, documentaries, and shorts in St. Louis each summer.

A St. Louis trans-led community center providing direct services, mutual aid, support groups, and community building for the trans, gender-queer, and nonbinary community.

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