Gay Guide
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About LGBTQ+ San Francisco
Harvey Milk was elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors in November 1977, becoming the first openly gay person elected to public office in California. He was assassinated alongside Mayor George Moscone in November 1978. The rainbow flag was designed by Gilbert Baker in San Francisco in 1978 and first flown at the city's Gay Freedom Day Parade that year.
The Castro is the historic gay neighborhood, centered on the intersection of Castro Street and Market Street. The Castro Theatre, opened in 1922, has been a longtime queer cinema and cultural venue. The GLBT Historical Society Museum at 4127 18th Street holds one of the largest collections of LGBTQ+ historical material in the United States.
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South of Market (SoMa) is the city's leather and kink district. Folsom Street, running between approximately 7th and 11th Streets, hosts many of the city's leather bars and kink venues. The Mission District has historically held queer-Latinx and lesbian-feminist nightlife. Bernal Heights has been associated with a lesbian community since the 1970s.
The Folsom Street Fair, held the last Sunday of September, is widely considered the largest leather and kink event in the world by attendance. Up Your Alley (also known as Dore Alley Fair), held in late July, is the smaller summer event organized by the same nonprofit (Folsom Street Events).
San Francisco Pride takes place the last weekend of June, with a parade Sunday and the festival in Civic Center Plaza. The Trans March (Friday) and Dyke March (Saturday) run as separate events that weekend.
Frameline, the San Francisco International LGBTQ+ Film Festival, runs each June and was founded in 1977. It is the longest-running LGBTQ+ film festival in the world.
The first AIDS Quilt was first displayed on the National Mall in October 1987; the NAMES Project Foundation, which created the quilt, was founded in San Francisco in 1987.
California legalized same-sex marriage in 2008, with the right briefly rescinded by Proposition 8 and then reinstated by federal court ruling. Same-sex marriage became permanently legal in California in 2013. Gender identity is protected under state nondiscrimination law.
BART and Muni provide the main transit. BART runs until approximately midnight on weekdays. Muni's night-owl buses cover the gap.
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Historic SoMa leather and cruise institution with fetish-forward themed nights.
Iconic Castro dance club known for DJs, weekend parties, and large video screens.
Video bar and Castro neighborhood stalwart at 4067 18th Street, a beloved spot for after-work drinks and community gathering.
Laid-back neighborhood gay bar at 4049 18th Street in San Francisco's Castro, a local fixture with a loyal crowd.
Neighborhood gay bar at 440 Castro Street in San Francisco, a comfortable local spot in the heart of The Castro.
Gay bar at 16th and Noe in San Francisco with a balcony overlooking the neighborhood, popular for weekend afternoon drinks and community events.
Historic Castro bar at 401 Castro Street, one of the first gay bars in the US to install floor-to-ceiling windows facing the street, a landmark of gay liberation since 1972.
Neighborhood restaurant near Dolores Park on 16th Street in San Francisco, popular with the local queer community for its seasonal California-inspired menu and convivial atmosphere.
Cozy wine bar in San Francisco's Castro neighborhood, offering an intimate setting for wine and light fare on the neighborhood's main strip.
The Queen Anne Hotel is always at your service with a very knowledgeable, friendly staff. Enjoy a great central location in an upscale district featuring easy transportation to all points of interest.
Historic boutique inn on Presidio Avenue in San Francisco, operating in a building that dates to 1875.
Voted a Top San Francisco attraction by TripAdvisor! Walking with pride since 1989 this historical walking tour is not to be missed. Join owner and tour guide Kathy Amendola.
Sex-positive men's club that includes dedicated video areas and adult screening spaces.
World-famous queer kink and fetish store in SoMa with deep roots in San Francisco leather culture.
Explicitly LGBTQ+ gym and coaching space serving the greater Bay Area.
Large LGBTQ-popular gym in SoMa with strong queer community usage.
Major LGBTQ-frequented fitness hub in the Castro neighborhood.
The first stand-alone LGBTQ history museum in the United States, located in the Castro.
Official nonprofit producer of San Francisco's annual Pride celebration and parade.
Historic worker-owned queer nightclub hosting drag, DJ nights, dance parties, and community events.
Castro gay bar known for dance events, inclusive nightlife, and weekly party programming.
Long-running Castro neighborhood bar with a strong local LGBTQ+ patron base and late-night atmosphere.
Long-running Castro gay sports bar serving San Francisco's LGBTQ+ community since 1980.
Historic lesbian-founded bar in Bernal Heights with a long-standing queer community following.
Tenderloin queer bar and drag institution with deep roots in San Francisco's trans and LGBTQ+ nightlife.
Premier LGBTQIA+ Castro venue that shifts from cocktail lounge to full dance club with themed parties.
Major San Francisco LGBTQ+ community center offering social services, events, and practical support resources.
Trans-focused support program in San Francisco providing services, community resources, and inclusive programming.
Castro queer bookshop focused on LGBTQ+ literature and inclusive community events in San Francisco.
San Francisco organization providing advocacy and direct support for trans Latina immigrants and communities.
One of the world's most celebrated LGBTQ+ choral ensembles, founded in 1978 in the wake of Harvey Milk's assassination, performing in the Bay Area and on international tours.
LGBTQ+ choral ensemble based in Oakland performing throughout the Bay Area and celebrating queer voices through music and community programming.
Long-running San Francisco queer DJ collective that produces dance parties at venues across the city.
SoMa rock-leaning gay dive bar with cheap drinks and queer alt crowd.
SoMa bear bar with theme nights, beer busts, and a weekly knitting club.
San Francisco's annual leather and kink street fair in SoMa, held on Dore Alley each summer, known as the smaller, neighborhood-feel cousin to Folsom Street Fair.
Oakland's annual LGBTQ+ pride festival, one of the Bay Area's major queer celebrations with a parade, outdoor festival, and community events.
North end is a long-standing clothing-optional stretch and widely used by LGBTQ+ beachgoers.
Beloved queer bar in San Francisco's Mission District with a large outdoor patio, a diverse inclusive crowd, and a legendary roster of outdoor dance parties.
Gay bar at 4086 18th Street in San Francisco's Castro with a pool table, sports on TV, and a casual atmosphere popular with neighborhood regulars.
Neighborhood cafe near Precita Park in San Francisco's Bernal Heights, known for welcoming regulars and a queer-friendly atmosphere.
Neighborhood cafe on Dolores Street adjacent to Mission Dolores Park, a popular stop for the queer community on sunny days when the park fills with LGBTQ+ crowds.
Queer-owned bakery and cafe in San Francisco's Bernal Heights neighborhood, known for creative pastries and a warm community space.
Queer bar and restaurant on 16th Street in San Francisco's Mission District, with DJ nights, dancing, and a lively LGBTQ+ community atmosphere.
Bronze sidewalk plaques along Castro Street honoring LGBTQ+ pioneers and icons from around the world, a self-guided outdoor memorial created by community volunteers.
San Francisco Tenderloin historical site of the 1966 Compton's Cafeteria riot, an early trans resistance milestone.
Peaceful grove in San Francisco's Golden Gate Park dedicated to those lost to AIDS, a serene national memorial created by the community and designated by Congress in 1996.
Historic gay leather bar in San Francisco's SoMa with a large outdoor patio, a longtime anchor of the city's leather community at 12th and Harrison.
Public plaza at the Castro Street Muni station in San Francisco, a gathering place and memorial honoring Harvey Milk, the LGBTQ+ activist and city supervisor assassinated in 1978.
Gay sports bar on Market Street in The Castro with large screens for game days, a rooftop patio, and a welcoming LGBTQ+ atmosphere.
San Francisco's historic leather and kink district in SoMa, centered around Folsom Street, home to leather bars, sex clubs, and the annual Folsom Street Fair, a globally significant center of LGBTQ+ leather culture.
Neighborhood gay bar at 4146 18th Street in San Francisco's Castro, a local institution with a relaxed, unhurried vibe.
Queer community dinner series hosted at Flour + Water Pasta Shop in San Francisco's Mission District, bringing the local LGBTQ+ community together for shared meals.
San Francisco's iconic LGBTQ+ neighborhood, an epicenter of queer culture and politics since the 1970s, centered around Castro Street and still home to a vibrant community of bars, shops, and organizations.
LGBTQ+-friendly guesthouse near San Francisco's Castro district known for quiet, boutique accommodations.
Neighborhood gift and lifestyle shop on 18th Street in San Francisco's Castro, stocking local products, LGBTQ+-focused goods, and gifts.
Community health, wellness, and gathering space in the Castro run by San Francisco AIDS Foundation.
Castro Street institution since 1936 offering hardware, housewares, and an eclectic range of goods, beloved for its enormous Halloween costume selection and neighborhood-staple status.
Artist-led queer gallery and event space on Castro Street showcasing local LGBTQ+ visual and performance arts.
Queer bar on Hayes Street in San Francisco's Lower Haight with a welcoming neighborhood vibe and regular LGBTQ+ events.
Queer nightclub and cabaret on 11th Street in San Francisco's SoMa, known for its drag performances, dance events, and a lively LGBTQ+ crowd.
Long-running gay bar on Polk Street in San Francisco's Polk Gulch, known for its friendly Western-themed atmosphere, pool tables, and a welcoming crowd.
San Francisco site connected to the AIDS Memorial Quilt, honoring lives lost and community activism.
Historic 1922 movie palace on Castro Street and a major LGBTQ+ cultural landmark in San Francisco.
Gay men's bathhouse in Berkeley (East Bay), offering a sauna, steam room, gym, and private rooms.
One of the country's oldest LGBTQ+ community centres, the Pacific Center for Human Growth in Berkeley, offering counselling, support groups, and community programs.
Stanford University's queer and trans student centre, offering programs, support, and a safe space.
The City of San Francisco's Office of Transgender Initiatives, working on policy and services for the trans and gender-nonconforming community.
Oakland's LGBTQ+ community centre, providing safe, inclusive spaces for wellness, connection, support, and empowerment.
Queer-owned nightclub in downtown Oakland with drag shows, dance parties, and a strong East Bay following.
A historic clothing-optional beach on the coast south of San Francisco, with a longtime gay section.
One of the oldest continuously operating gay bars in the United States, a beloved neighbourhood bar on the Oakland-Berkeley border.
A QPOC-owned Art Deco cocktail bar and lounge in Oakland, an inclusive community space.
An LGBTQ+ Latin nightclub and restaurant in downtown Oakland, with drag brunches, karaoke and hip-hop nights alongside the Latin dance parties that fill Friday and Saturday.
Sprawling arts and events complex in Dogpatch that runs galleries, festivals, and large-format club nights across its warehouse spaces. Its dance floor hosts major queer and fetish parties through the year, particularly during Pride and the Dore Alley and Folsom weekends.
Late-night club on 11th Street in a converted brick warehouse, known for its sound system and dusk-to-dawn programming. House and techno rule the decks, with regular queer takeovers, daytime parties, and afterhours sessions during the big leather and Pride weekends.
One of San Francisco's longest-running large-format clubs, a multi-room SoMa institution built for big sound and big crowds. House and techno headliners most weekends, and a regular home for marquee queer parties, including major circuit and benefit dances during the city's leather-fair weekends.
Club and arts space off Mission Street with an underground booking policy, two rooms, and a loyal dance-music crowd. Queer parties and international guest DJs are a fixture of the calendar, and the venue is a regular stop on the party circuit during Pride and the leather-fair weekends.
Independent, all-welcome nightclub that has anchored the 11th Street corridor since 1985, with multiple rooms, late hours, and a packed calendar of dance nights, live shows, and mashup parties. Queer, leather, and fetish events land here year-round, and during the Dore Alley and Folsom weekends it hosts some of the biggest dance floors in SoMa.
San Francisco venue featuring Industrial x art deco, and 360 VOID sound that hosts various LGBTQIA+ events.
A San Francisco nonprofit founded and led by Black trans women, supporting transgender women of color through housing help, name and gender-marker legal clinics, employment programs, and community support.
The world's first legally recognized transgender district, spanning several blocks of the Tenderloin near the site of the 1966 Compton's Cafeteria riot. It supports the local trans community through cultural events, economic development, and community programs.
A Black trans-led organization by and for transgender, gender-variant, and intersex people, working to end human rights abuses against TGI people inside and outside California prisons. Runs peer legal advocacy, reentry support, and trans housing programs.
A community health clinic providing primary and gender-affirming care for transgender people and cisgender women, regardless of ability to pay. One of San Francisco's longest-running LGBTQ+ health institutions.
UCSF Health's multidisciplinary gender-affirming care program, offering hormone therapy, primary care, mental health support, and coordination of gender-affirming surgery for transgender, non-binary, and gender-expansive patients.
The largest trans-led civil rights organization in the United States, working on legal advocacy, policy, and movement building for transgender and gender-nonconforming people. Based in Oakland.
Gender- and sexuality-affirming medical and mental health care for queer and trans youth ages 12 to 24, based at the Castro-Mission Health Center. One of the first clinics of its kind in the country, running since 1998.