Gay Guide

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About LGBTQ+ New York City

The riots at the Stonewall Inn in June 1969 are widely considered the start of the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement. The Stonewall Inn at 53 Christopher Street is still in operation. The Stonewall National Monument, designated in 2016, was the first U.S. National Monument dedicated to LGBTQ+ history. The Christopher Street piers along the Hudson, just west of the West Village, were a longtime gathering place for ballroom and houses culture beginning in the 1970s.

The historic gay neighborhood is the West Village (also called Greenwich Village), centered on Christopher Street and Sheridan Square. Julius' Bar, a few blocks away, is one of the oldest continuously operating gay bars in New York City, with documented LGBTQ+ clientele dating to the 1960s.

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Chelsea, particularly along Eighth Avenue between 14th and 23rd Street, was the primary gay-male neighborhood through the 1990s and 2000s. Hell's Kitchen, along Ninth Avenue between 42nd and 57th Streets, has hosted the densest cluster of gay bars in Manhattan since the 2010s. Bushwick, in Brooklyn, holds an active lesbian and queer-of-color nightlife scene. The East Village has a smaller queer nightlife cluster.

NYC Pride takes place the last weekend of June. The official NYC Pride March on Sunday is among the largest Pride parades in the world by attendance. The Dyke March on Saturday and Trans March on Friday run as separate events. The Queer Liberation March, founded in 2019, organizes a separate march in opposition to corporate sponsorship and police presence at the official events.

Other annual queer events include Wigstock (drag festival, late summer at Pier 17), Bushwig (drag festival in Bushwick, September), Folsom East (leather and kink street fair on West 28th Street, June), and NYC Black Pride (August). Marie's Crisis, a sing-along piano bar in the West Village, has operated since the 1850s and has been a fixture of queer nightlife since at least the mid-20th century.

The NYC subway runs 24 hours. The C/E and 1 lines serve the West Village and Chelsea; the L line serves Bushwick; the A/C/E continues into Hell's Kitchen. Same-sex marriage has been legal in New York State since 2011 under the Marriage Equality Act. The Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA), passed in 2019, prohibits discrimination based on gender identity or expression in employment, housing, and public accommodations.

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A leather and fetish street fair held in Manhattan each June in the run-up to NYC Pride, run as an East Coast counterpart to the San Francisco original. Gear, vendors, outdoor DJs and a block closed to traffic, with proceeds going to LGBTQ+ community organizations.
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Pocono Mountains, Pennsylvania
Gay Naturists International's flagship event: a ten-day clothing-free camping festival each August in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania, about 90 minutes from New York City, drawing hundreds of men from around the world.

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Hell's Kitchen

A spacious Hell's Kitchen gay bar spread across multiple levels, known for its daily happy hours, go-go dancers, and a crowd that skews younger and more social. Industry is one of the busiest bars on the 52nd Street gay corridor.

Chelsea

Iconic multi-level leather and fetish-oriented gay bar with themed nightlife events.

East Village

Actor Alan Cumming's East Village bar is known for wild, welcoming variety shows, drag performances, and late-night dance parties. Club Cumming has a decidedly anti-pretentious, anything-goes atmosphere that has made it a favourite since opening in 2017.

Address 505 E 6th St
Chelsea

A Chelsea gay sports bar on 8th Avenue with multiple screens showing live games, a friendly staff, and a casual crowd. Gym is a reliable neighbourhood hangout that works equally well for Sunday brunch or late-night drinks.

Address 167 8th Ave
West Village

A West Village gay bar at the corner of Grove Street with two very different floors: a convivial piano bar upstairs and a basement dance floor that gets busy on weekends. The Monster has been a Village staple for decades, attracting a multigenerational mixed crowd.

Address 80 Grove St
West Village

A legendary West Village lesbian bar open since 1991, one of the oldest and most celebrated in New York. Henrietta Hudson draws a loyal, multigenerational crowd of women and queer people with DJs, themed nights, and a warm community atmosphere.

East Village

Long-running NYC queer cruising dive bar known for dark-room and late-night adult energy.

Address 93 2nd Ave
West Village

A longtime Christopher Street institution open since 1972 and one of the oldest surviving gay bars in the Village. Ty's is a low-key, no-frills neighbourhood bar with a leather-leaning local crowd and a strong sense of continuity with the street's historic queer character.

New York

Gay history for gay travelers: Oscar Wilde Tours organizes group tours focused on gay history, culture, and art. From Socrates to Michelangelo, from Whitman to Wigstock.

Manhattan gay sauna and health club with steam room, sauna, and private cabins.

Trans-owned queer-centered boxing and fitness gym in Brooklyn.

West Village

West Village gay bar on Christopher Street with strong bear and leather community presence.

New York's largest LGBTQ+ film and media nonprofit presenting year-round screenings.

Manhattan

An LGBTQ+ bookshop and community space tucked inside the LGBT Community Center on West 13th Street. BGSQD stocks queer fiction, theory, zines, and art books alongside hosting readings, signings, and community events.

Official nonprofit producer of New York City's Pride events and march.

West Village

A well-loved West Village gay bar with a lively atmosphere, drag shows, and a friendly crowd. Playhouse draws a mixed queer clientele across multiple nights of programming, from themed drink specials to DJ nights.

A queer Brooklyn venue in Bushwick hosting DJ nights, live music, comedy, and community events across a large bar and dance floor. 3 Dollar Bill is one of Brooklyn's most reliably queer spaces with a strong emphasis on intersectional, trans-inclusive programming.

Hell's Kitchen

A Hell's Kitchen gay bar on 10th Avenue with a dark, industrial aesthetic and a mostly male crowd. Hardware Bar draws a mixed leather and regular clientele with DJ sets and drink specials most nights.

Address 697 10th Ave
Hell's Kitchen

A Hell's Kitchen gay bar on 9th Avenue with daily happy hours, a friendly atmosphere, and a crowd that spans the neighbourhood's gay community. Rise is a solid neighbourhood option for no-fuss drinks before or after the busier spots nearby.

Address 859 9th Ave
Greenwich Village

A Christopher Street staple known for its campy, high-energy atmosphere, drag performances, and legendary singalong nights. Pieces has been a West Village favourite since the 1980s and welcomes a mixed crowd with a spirit of inclusivity and fun.

New York City nonprofit providing housing, support services, and advocacy for LGBTQ+ youth experiencing homelessness.

Brooklyn LGBTQ+ community center providing community programs, support services, and advocacy for local residents.

New York LGBTQ+ community health center providing affirming primary care, sexual health, and mental health services.

Major New York LGBTQ+ community center in Manhattan offering support services, cultural programming, and advocacy.

Historic feminist and LGBTQ+-inclusive organizing and community resource in New York.

The leading LGBTQ+ media advocacy organization, working to accelerate acceptance through storytelling, journalism, and entertainment industry outreach. GLAAD was founded in New York in 1985 in response to stigmatizing AIDS coverage and now operates nationally.

A national education organization focused on creating safe and affirming schools for LGBTQ+ students. Founded in New York in 1990, GLSEN supports student-led Gender and Sexuality Alliance clubs, policy advocacy, and educator training across the US.

The world's largest collection of materials by and about lesbians, housed since 1993 in a Park Slope brownstone. The Archives preserve over 20,000 books, thousands of periodicals, photographs, and personal papers, all freely accessible to the public without academic gatekeeping.

The nation's largest and oldest organization dedicated to LGBTQ+ older adults, founded in New York in 1978. SAGE provides direct services, advocacy, and a national network of LGBTQ+ welcoming care providers, with particular focus on isolated and low-income elders.

An inclusive St. Patrick's Day parade held annually in Sunnyside, Queens since 2000, founded as a direct alternative to the Manhattan parade's exclusion of LGBTQ+ groups. St. Pat's for All explicitly welcomes LGBTQ+ marchers, immigrants, and all communities, and has grown into a beloved neighbourhood tradition.

A queer-owned Chelsea bakery and café with a devoted following for its sourdough and pastries. Big Booty Bread Co has become a neighborhood institution and a warm, welcoming spot for the local LGBTQ+ community.

A queer-owned cookie shop in Hell's Kitchen beloved by Theatre District regulars and locals alike for its oversized, imaginatively flavoured cookies. Schmackary's has become a neighbourhood institution since opening in 2012, with a cult following for flavours like red velvet, funfetti, and seasonal specials.

Williamsburg/Bushwick queer cocktail bar and weekend dance party with drag programming.

Centrally located Hell's Kitchen neighborhood gay bar that opens its facade in warm weather and becomes a major people-watching corner.

Hell's Kitchen

Hell's Kitchen LGBTQ+ cocktail and drag-show bar with performance-driven nightlife and late-night events.

Chelsea queer fetish, gear and streetwear flagship store.

Sunday gay dance party at Marquee with circuit DJs and a strong queer crowd.

Recurring NYC iteration of the legendary London queer disco party.

Hell's Kitchen gay bar with pop-driven nights, drag and dance programming.

West Village leather and fetish gear specialty shop, NYC institution since 1965.

Uptown Boxers location, an LGBTQ+ neighborhood sports bar.

West Village

Historic West Village LGBTQ+ bar and National Monument, birthplace of the modern gay rights movement.

One of the oldest gay bars in NYC, a West Village institution famous for the 1966 'Sip-In' protest.

Bushwick

A queer-forward Bushwick bar with a thoughtfully curated cocktail list, DJ nights, and a warm, art-influenced aesthetic. Mood Ring is known for its welcoming atmosphere and draws a young, diverse crowd from the neighbourhood's queer community.

National Park Service site honoring the 1969 Stonewall Uprising and the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement.

East Village gay dive bar with cheap drinks, pool, and a longstanding queer regulars scene.

East Village

A long-running East Village gay bar with a dark, cosy interior and a reliably mixed crowd. Nowhere is a neighbourhood standby open seven days a week, known for strong drinks, good DJs on weekends, and an unpretentious atmosphere.

Alphabet City queer-friendly bar with karaoke, drag, and a chill east-village neighborhood crowd.

Chelsea

Chelsea gay sports bar and grill with rooftop seating and game-day crowds.

Queer-friendly pleasure store in the West Village stocking toys, gear, and books, with a sex-positive, education-first approach and regular workshops.

West Village

A West Village institution since 1994 and one of New York's best-loved lesbian bars, decorated floor-to-ceiling with hanging tchotchkes and string lights. Cubbyhole attracts a mixed queer crowd across all ages with a genuinely warm, neighbourhood feel.

Hell's Kitchen gay sports bar with games, wings, and a regular LGBTQ+ neighborhood crowd.

Park Slope

A longtime lesbian dive bar in Park Slope that has served Brooklyn's queer women and femmes for over two decades. Ginger's is unpretentious and welcoming, with a pool table, jukebox, and backyard patio.

West Village

A Christopher Street institution since 1951, The Duplex is one of New York's oldest and most beloved cabarets, showcasing comedy, solo performers, and piano bar sing-alongs. The intimate venue has launched countless careers and remains a warm, welcoming cornerstone of the Village's queer nightlife.

A Bushwick performance venue and nightclub known for elaborate themed events, aerial performances, and a radically inclusive, body-positive ethos. House of Yes is a creative collective as much as a bar, producing original shows and parties that blur art and nightlife.

Hell's Kitchen neighborhood gay dive bar known for its iconic popcorn machine and classic queer crowd.

Legendary West Village piano bar and queer institution famous for show-tune sing-alongs.

Greenpoint queer-popular club with house and techno parties.

South Slope

A lesbian and queer bar in Prospect Heights with a warm, inclusive atmosphere and a strong emphasis on community. Good Judy hosts regular events including drag nights, comedy shows, and themed parties in a cozy, well-designed space.

East Village

A classic gay bar in the East Village with a long history and a loyal local following. Phoenix is a no-frills neighbourhood spot open late every night, drawing a mixed crowd who come for cheap drinks and good company rather than anything flashy.

Hell's Kitchen neighborhood gay bar with a laid-back vibe and back patio.

Brooklyn Bushwick queer-friendly multi-room music venue and rooftop with regular LGBTQ+ programming.

Brooklyn Gowanus queer-popular venue with hi-fi sound system.

New York LGBTQ+ recurring queer dance party.

Hell's Kitchen neighborhood bar with craft cocktails, DJs most nights, and a friendly local crowd in an industrial-chic space.

Roving Brooklyn party for lesbians and queer women, with DJs, dancing, and a devoted sapphic following.

Address Brooklyn, NY
East Village

East Village queer-led restaurant known for inventive contemporary menus and a strong community-centered atmosphere.

NoHo

NoHo queer-led restaurant known for contemporary European-inspired dishes and a refined neighborhood atmosphere.

Hell’s Kitchen

Hell's Kitchen queer cocktail bar known for nightlife events, performances, and a social local crowd.

Bedford-Stuyvesant

Bed-Stuy queer-led restaurant with regional New Mexican dishes and a neighborhood-focused dining experience.

NoHo

NoHo queer-led cocktail bar known for classic drinks, warm service, and a stylish intimate room.

Crown Heights

Crown Heights queer-led Italian trattoria and wine bar with seasonal menus and a neighborhood atmosphere.

Flatiron

Flatiron queer-led restaurant known for contemporary cooking, seasonal menus, and an intimate setting.

West Village

West Village queer-led Italian restaurant known for classic dishes and an iconic neighborhood dining room.

Bushwick

Bushwick queer-led restaurant known for seasonal cooking and a relaxed neighborhood setting.

The historic 2019 commemoration of the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising, which brought WorldPride to New York City for the first time. The events drew an estimated five million people to NYC, including world leaders and delegations from over 90 countries, making it the largest LGBTQ+ gathering in history.

Crown Heights

Brooklyn queer-led restaurant and cafe in Crown Heights known for seasonal menus, pastries, and a strong neighborhood following.

Soho

SoHo queer-led restaurant and cocktail bar with a social dining atmosphere and evening crowd.

Greenpoint

Greenpoint queer-led restaurant and bar combining Japanese-inspired food, cocktails, and intimate nightlife.

Soho

SoHo queer-led restaurant and bar known for classic cocktails and neighborhood dining.

The world's largest LGBTQ+ pride march, held annually in late June along Fifth Avenue to mark the anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising. NYC Pride draws millions of participants and spectators from around the world and has been a defining event in LGBTQ+ history since 1970.

Hell's Kitchen is one of NYC's core LGBTQ+ nightlife districts with many bars, clubs, and queer-owned businesses.

Chelsea is a major Manhattan LGBTQ+ hub with bars, community institutions, and longstanding queer cultural history.

West Village and Christopher Street are central to New York LGBTQ+ history, nightlife, and community identity.

Harlem

A gay bar and lounge on Adam Clayton Powell Jr Boulevard serving Harlem's LGBTQ+ community with a welcoming neighbourhood atmosphere, weekly events, and drag shows. Lambda Lounge is one of the few dedicated queer spaces in upper Manhattan.

Williamsburg

A queer-friendly bar in Williamsburg with a cosy, neighbourhood feel and a regular LGBTQ+ crowd. The Exley hosts DJ nights and community events in a welcoming space on the Williamsburg-Greenpoint border.

Astoria

A gay bar and event space in Astoria serving Queens' LGBTQ+ community with drag shows, karaoke, trivia nights, and dance parties. Icon is a vital neighbourhood anchor for queer residents who don't want to cross into Manhattan for a night out.

Upper East Side

A leather and fetish bar on the Upper East Side serving Manhattan's leather community with a dark, relaxed atmosphere and regular kink-themed events. The Toolbox draws a mostly male leather crowd and is one of the few dedicated fetish bars remaining in Manhattan.

Bushwick

A queer-friendly bar in Bushwick with a laid-back neighbourhood feel, hosting DJ nights, community events, and themed parties for a young, mixed crowd. Happyfun Hideaway is a welcoming spot away from the more polished Manhattan scene.

Astoria

A queer-friendly dive bar in Astoria serving the neighborhood's LGBTQ+ community with cheap drinks, a welcoming atmosphere, and regular events. Albatross is one of the few explicitly queer-friendly bars in Queens.

SoHo

The world's first dedicated LGBTQ+ art museum, founded in SoHo in 1987 to collect, preserve, and exhibit art that reflects queer experience. Leslie-Lohman presents rotating exhibitions across painting, photography, and works on paper by emerging and established LGBTQ+ artists.

Rosebank

The Victorian cottage home of pioneering photographer Alice Austen (1866–1952), one of America's earliest known lesbian photographers. Now a museum on Staten Island, it celebrates her life and work and was designated a National Historic Landmark in recognition of her LGBTQ+ significance.

Greenwich Village

A small triangular park in Greenwich Village directly across from the Stonewall Inn, featuring the "Gay Liberation" sculpture by George Segal. Christopher Park is an enduring symbol of the 1969 Stonewall Uprising and the LGBTQ+ rights movement it sparked.

An annual protest march held in New York City each June as an alternative to the corporate NYC Pride March, organized by the Reclaim Pride Coalition since 2019. The Queer Liberation March is unpermitted, free of floats and sponsors, and marches without police escort, centring the radical roots of LGBTQ+ resistance.

New York's celebration of LGBTQ+ Black pride, held annually each Memorial Day weekend with a multi-day programme of parties, community gatherings, and cultural events. NYC Black Pride is one of the largest Black LGBTQ+ celebrations in the world.

An annual LGBTQ+ pride celebration centred in Harlem's Sugar Hill and Hamilton Heights neighbourhoods, honouring the historic Black queer community that shaped the area. Harlem Pride hosts a festival, film screenings, and community events each June.

The annual LGBTQ+ pride celebration in Jackson Heights, Queens, one of the most diverse and culturally rich queer neighbourhoods in New York. Queens Pride draws a vibrant, predominantly Latino and South Asian LGBTQ+ community each June with a parade and street festival along Roosevelt Avenue.

Hell's Kitchen

A gay cocktail bar in Hell's Kitchen with plush seating, a stylish interior, and a relaxed vibe. Hush draws a mixed crowd looking for a more intimate alternative to the louder clubs nearby on the 52nd Street strip.

A recurring queer communal dinner and fundraiser series in New York, bringing together LGBTQ+ people over shared meals and raising money for queer community organisations. Queer Soup Night blends food, community-building, and activism in an intimate setting.

Bedford-Stuyvesant

A Crown Heights bar and all-ages event venue with a strong queer identity, hosting DJ nights, live performances, comedy, and record listening sessions. C'mon Everybody is also part record shop, part community hub for Brooklyn's queer creative scene.

Hell's Kitchen

A gay bar and lounge in Hell's Kitchen on Restaurant Row, with a long happy hour, a welcoming atmosphere, and a mixed crowd of locals and theatre-goers. The Ritz is a solid neighbourhood option for pre- or post-show drinks in Midtown.

West Village

A beloved NYC soft-serve institution known for inventive toppings like Bea Arthur (dulce de leche and crushed Nilla wafers) and the Salty Pimp. Big Gay Ice Cream started as a food truck in 2009 before opening permanent shops, blending irreverent queer branding with genuinely excellent ice cream.

Long Island City

An annual queer zines fair held at MoMA PS1 in Long Island City, presenting independently published LGBTQ+ zines, artist books, and ephemera from creators across the country. The fair is a highlight of New York's queer publishing and DIY arts calendar.

Brooklyn

A Brooklyn outpost of the beloved romance-only bookshop, carrying a wide selection of romance novels with a notably strong LGBTQ+ section. The Ripped Bodice is a warm, welcoming space that has championed queer romance and diverse representation in the genre since its original LA location opened in 2016.

Greenpoint

A queer-owned independent coffee shop in Greenpoint serving specialty coffee and pastries in a welcoming, community-minded space. Odd Fox has become a neighbourhood fixture for Greenpoint's growing queer community.

A queer women's beer brand and community event series, organizing brewery meetups and social gatherings for lesbians, queer women, and non-binary people in NYC and beyond. Dyke Beer has helped fill the gap left by the shrinking number of dedicated lesbian spaces.

Bushwick

Black-owned lesbian and queer dyke bar in Bushwick, Brooklyn, opened in 2023 with cocktails, pop-up strip shows, and a community-first approach centering queer and trans people of color.

Queer- and trans-owned soy wax candle company founded by Ab & Al, originally in Brooklyn and now based in Philadelphia. Donates 10% of profits to the Sylvia Rivera Law Project, centering QTBIPOC voices.

Astoria

A touring lesbian bar pop-up that brings a dedicated lesbian bar experience to cities across the US, including regular NYC stops. Dave's Lesbian Bar was created in response to the declining number of permanent lesbian bars and has built a loyal following through its welcoming, community-driven events.

Brooklyn restaurant and bar in Bed-Stuy serving soul food and cocktails, a welcoming neighborhood spot.

A gay bar and restaurant near Times Square serving cocktails and American comfort food in a welcoming, low-key space. Red Eye is a reliable queer option in Midtown West, drawing a mixed after-work and pre-theatre crowd.

A gay bar and Williamsburg institution since 2002, known for its unpretentious vibe, good jukebox, and large backyard patio. Metropolitan draws a mixed queer crowd of locals and attracts everyone from after-work regulars to a full house on weekend nights.

An annual outdoor drag festival revived in New York, originally staged in Tompkins Square Park from 1984 and now held on Pier 17 at the South Street Seaport. Wigstock celebrates drag culture in all its extravagance and has been a landmark event in NYC queer nightlife history since its founding by Lady Bunny.

A social justice and anti-racist bookshop in Bed-Stuy with a strong selection of LGBTQ+ titles, Black literature, and works on race, feminism, and community organizing. The Word Is Change combines bookselling with programming and advocacy for justice-oriented causes.

The National History Archive housed within the LGBT Community Center on West 13th Street, preserving photographs, publications, organizational records, and personal papers documenting New York's LGBTQ+ history. Open to researchers and the public as a free resource.

The original 1967 location of the first LGBTQ+ bookshop in the United States, opened by Craig Rodwell at 291 Mercer Street before relocating to Christopher Street in 1973. The site is now commemorated as a landmark in New York's LGBTQ+ history, predating the Stonewall Uprising.

An annual film festival in New York City celebrating kink-positive and sex-forward cinema, showcasing shorts, features, and documentaries that explore sexuality and desire outside the mainstream. CineKink has run since 2003 and draws an open-minded, queer-inclusive audience.

An independent Lower East Side bookshop and magazine destination specialising in art, design, fashion, and culture titles, with a strong selection of queer and alternative publications. P&T Knitwear is a beloved space for the city's LGBTQ+ creative community.

New York's longest-running queer experimental film festival, presenting challenging and boundary-pushing LGBTQ+ cinema since 1987. MIX NYC champions avant-garde, narrative, and documentary work that falls outside mainstream distribution, with a particular emphasis on emerging and international queer filmmakers.

An LGBTQ+ adult and sex shop in New York City.

A gay bar and club in Brooklyn.

A neighbourhood gay pub on Amsterdam Avenue on Manhattan's Upper West Side, with a local feel.

NYC's first and only trans cocktail bar and lounge, in Chelsea, a welcoming space for transgender and LGBTQ+ people.

An all-inclusive gay piano bar and lounge in Manhattan's Midtown East, with nightly pianists and cabaret-style tunes.

A grassroots agency and the LGBTQ+ centre of the Bronx, offering housing, health, and support services for the borough's queer community.

New Jersey's statewide LGBTQ+ community centre, offering support groups, programs, and a gathering space.

A trans-led intercultural collective in Queens supporting trans and gender-nonconforming Latine and immigrant New Yorkers.

Manhattan's only Black-owned LGBTQ+ bar, a welcoming lounge in Harlem.

A DIY community art gallery and performance venue in New York City focused on women and non-binary artists working in sound, performance, and interdisciplinary art.

Hell's Kitchen

New queer nightlife and salon space with performance programming.

A Black trans-led organization providing housing, crisis support, health advocacy, and reentry services for transgender people, especially trans women and sex workers.

A collective providing free legal services to transgender, intersex, and gender-nonconforming people, with a focus on low-income people and people of color. Named for the trans activist Sylvia Rivera.

A trans-led organization serving trans, gender-nonconforming, and nonbinary New Yorkers since 2007, with a focus on Latinx, BIPOC, immigrant, and economically insecure community members.

A transgender-led organization advocating for inclusive gender-based policy by building community leaders, educating practitioners, and influencing policymakers.

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